Thought you might be interested...

Relationships are hard, confusing and frustrating. Especially when there are more than two players involved. I thought that you might enjoy reading a conversation I had with Poecker via FB today...

Me
Jake told me he loved me last night and I said nothing

1:15pmMelissa
WHAT??!!! Oh poor guy what an awkward moment. what did he say then?

1:17pmMe
He just said he had something to tell me and he had wanted to for a while. He knew it was awkward for me and he hoped he know what he was getting at. I said yes I did. He asked if he should proceed and I said if he wanted to, he could. He said that I had done so much for him in way of growing and whatever and I said the next girl will be even better and he said that he didn't want the other girl, he was in love with this one.

1:17pmMelissa
ha ha. so do you slightly love him?

1:18pmMe
Somedays I think I love him and somedays I don't want him

1:19pmMelissa
oh that is cute!! it much be love:) did you makeout after he said that?

1:21pmMe
We did. mostly cause I didn't want him to ask me questions. He asked if we were at least in the same neighborhood and I said we were in similar subdivisions. and then we ended the evening the way every evening should be ended...with a John Wayne Movie (Blue Steel)

1:25pmMelissa
A Subdivision is closer than cities so that is a plus. How are things with todd?

1:26pmMe
i kind of hate him!
We had a fun weekend and on the ride home he talked about this HOT 25 year old that he is taking out on Saturday and he was kind of perving on her 15 year old sister!

Melissa
WHAT!!! that is nasty. why would he say that when he basically proposed to you. i think you need to be done with todd!! and kick him in the nuts HARD with cowboy boots on.

1:30pmMe
Done! I'll wear my cute red ones. He asked me if I loved Jake, cause I told him that he had tried to tell me he loved me and he said he thought I DID love Jake, but I was just in denial. I really hate Todd.

1:30pmMelissa
i hate todd too. i am going to put that on the back of my team jake shirt!

1:31pmMe
please do

1:31pmMelissa
i am seriously going too!! he just doesn't get it and i think he likes to play games.

1:34pmMe
I think I am a last resort to him. A consolation prize. Not first choice and by hell, I AM a first choice. He would be LUCKY to have me! The Bastard!

1:36pmMelissa
You are the GRAND PRIZE!!! He doesn't realize it yet but when you are engaged he is going to want to shoot himself!! or i will shot him whatever he prefers. maybe i should do it now so we don't waste time.
you should of asked him what a hot 25 wanted with him. that was mean but i am fuming mad at him. its a good thing he doesn't teach at my kids school!!

1:42pmMe
I know. I wasn't that mad until I got home and thought more about it...now I am...

1:43pmMelissa
if you are ever with him and jake will you please kiss jake right in front of todd. please just for me!!

1:45pmMe
It may happen soon. I have a race coming up in two weeks and they have both asked to come. Todd my run it. Its no holds barred now. I am not going to try and keep them seperate anymore. He's gone

1:45pmMelissa
YAY!! can i come watch the kissing? where is the race?

1:46pmMe
Its the Dirty dash in Midway on the 25th. 6 mile mud run. Should be awesome!

1:49pmMelissa
I saw a flier for that, it looks like fun!!


This is all I've got for now...got to get back to work, but I thought I would just keep everyone updated. You KNOW who you are.

Loves!